Play It By Your Rules

E29 - PIBYR: Why Your Habits Don’t Stick - and What to Do Instead


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It’s that time again - fresh goals, new intentions, big dreams.

But let’s be honest: most resolutions don’t make it past February.

So… why don’t our habits stick?

And more importantly - what actually works?

In this episode, I sit down with Ivan Palomino - behavioral science strategist and unapologetic habit hacker — to unpack the science behind human behavior and habit change.

Spoiler: it’s not about motivation. It’s about design.

Ivan blends neuroscience, psychology, and real-life experimentation (including his own burnout and career reinvention) to help you create lasting change — with way less effort than you think.

We covered:

  • Why we operate on autopilot 90% of the time — and how to use that to your advantage

  • The 4 brain rules that shape your decisions (emotion, effort, illusion, and reward)

  • How to build habits by stacking them on existing routines

  • The difference between rituals, motivation, and capacity

  • Why your willpower was never the problem

  • Tiny habits that lead to massive ripple effects

    ✨ Practical Takeaways:

    • Pick ONE habit — do it daily for 30 days before adding more

    • Use immediate rewards and low-effort design to reduce friction

    • Track progress in ways that create satisfaction (not stress)

      This episode is for anyone tired of failing at New Year’s goals — and ready to build change that lasts.

      Your life. Your rules. For more freedom, flow, and fun.

      Links:

      🔗 Connect with Ivan on LinkedIn
      🌐 Learn more at ivanpalomino.net
      ▶️ Watch more on YouTube – Growth Hacking Culture
      📬 Subscribe to Ivan’s Newsletter on LinkedIn

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      Play It By Your RulesBy Meggi Rombach