Sometimes, the biggest shifts come from the most basic questions.

In this reflective and intimate episode, Bunmi Ogunbona explores the assumptions we all carry — often unconsciously — about success, legacy, purpose, and what a “good life” should look like.

Through stories from real coaching conversations, she unpacks the quiet ways we project our own frameworks onto others — and the profound clarity that emerges when we pause to ask: What does that mean to you?

From clients challenging expectations about family, career, or financial ambition, to moments where a single assumption nearly altered an entire coaching journey, this episode reminds us that being present isn’t about having the perfect question — it’s about being brave enough to ask the obvious ones.

Topics explored:

• Coaching presence and projection
• Cultural scripts around success and legacy
• The emotional labour of assumption
• Values clarification and meaning-making
• Why “obvious” questions matter more than we think

Whether you’re a coach, leader, or someone navigating your own growth, this episode invites you to slow down, stay open, and ask again — with curiosity, not certainty.

The Work No One Sees is hosted by Bunmi Ogunbona — executive coach, facilitator, and curious human exploring the quieter side of success.

Some reflections in this episode are inspired by real coaching or facilitation experiences. These are always anonymised and often blended across sessions or workshops. The stories shared reflect my personal learning — not anyone else’s.

This podcast is not therapy or personalised advice. If you need professional support, please reach out to a qualified provider.

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