Has there ever been a time when you were in the wrong and you put blinders on and didn't talk to, listed to or ask anyone who would hold you accountable, for their advice? I've been there, and I remember it well. We don't want to hear the right advice when we are in the wrong. We stay around people who won't hold our feet to the fire and hold us accountable. But how will we ever learn, grow or do better, if we keep those blinders on? We won't! So, own your shit! Take responsibility for your side of the road. Listen to the hard advice so you can move forward and change and grow. And if it's your friend/partner/loved one in need of the good advice, be the person who can give that good advice and love them even if they don't take it. Life is about lessons. Owning your own shit is just the one of them.