Founder Reality

E44: I Failed 6 Times This Morning (And Finally Learned React)


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After months of failing to learn React from books and courses, I discovered a method that worked in 15 minutes. Failed 6 times debugging code with AI this morning, finally understood on attempt 7. Why traditional education is broken for builders and the daily practice system that actually works.

The 6 failures that changed everything:

  • This morning on subway: failed 6 times debugging React code with ChatGPT
  • Felt embarrassed even though just talking to AI, no one judging me
  • Each time: "George, you're close, but you're wrong" with patient explanation
  • AI asked after attempt 4: "Should we move to next section?"
  • Said no - wanted to keep trying until I actually understood
  • Attempt 7 (15 minutes total): finally got it right because I understood, not memorized

Why I've been failing for months:

  • Tried learning React/Next.js for months - bought books, read documentation, enrolled in Frontend Masters
  • Every time opened book or video: wanted to fall asleep (not exaggeration, actual drowsiness)
  • Eyes would glaze over at code blocks and syntax
  • Even morning sessions left me drained for entire day
  • Same problem in college CS courses - struggled with motivation, not ability

The college trauma that shaped bad learning habits:

  • First year CS: did poorly on midterms/finals, thought I was bad at computer science
  • Problem wasn't me - was how I was forced to learn
  • Was the contrarian student asking "why learn impractical stuff nobody uses?"
  • Afraid to ask questions - wanted to be "George who knows everything"
  • Fear of judgment from professors/peers stopped me from learning effectively
  • Got internship, realized I was actually okay at CS - teaching method was the problem

What I did differently this morning:

  • Opened ChatGPT on phone, VS Code on laptop on subway
  • Asked: "Give me React code with bugs, let me debug them, if I fail tell me what's wrong"
  • First exercise: React state and rendering (didn't understand coming from HTML/CSS/JS world)
  • Failed 6 times, AI gave 6 different scenarios testing same concept
  • Had to explain in natural language what was happening and what caused bug
  • If professor: would be pissed and move to next student
  • If peer: would be dismissive "you still don't get it?"
  • AI: patiently explained differently each time until I understood

Active vs passive learning (the critical difference):

Traditional (Passive):

  • Read documentation about React state
  • Watch video explaining rendering
  • Complete teacher's exercises
  • Hope you remember later

AI-Assisted (Active):

  • Look at actual buggy code
  • Try to figure out what's wrong
  • Fail, get immediate feedback
  • Try again with different example
  • Repeat until actually understand

In 15 minutes of active debugging, learned more than 30 minutes of lecture

Why curriculums are broken:

  • Every system (colleges, bootcamps, Duolingo) uses curriculums to scale
  • One teacher → 100 students, one course → 10,000 people
  • But curriculums assume everyone is same - they're not
  • ANC consulting: no curriculum, one-on-one because every founder at different stage
  • Your context is unique: designer understanding devs, PM estimating complexity, founder prototyping, student building portfolio

The new learning system (15 minutes daily):

Step 1: Pick Your AI (all have generous free tiers)

  • ChatGPT, Claude, Google Gemini, Hugging Face Chat, Meta AI, DeepSeek
  • Don't let cost stop you - free versions work excellently

Step 2: Define Your Context (critical - be specific)

My React prompt: "I'm a founder trying to understand React and Next.js because my repos are built on them. I can read some code, but I fall asleep reading documentation or tutorials. I need to review code and make architectural decisions for my team. I'm not trying to write production code. I have 15 minutes per day. Please design daily debugging exercises for me."

My French prompt: "I'm learning French for work in Canada. I'm currently at A2 level (CLB 4-5). I have basic understanding but struggle with speaking, writing, and French accents. I have 30 minutes per day. Please give me daily reading and writing practice with corrections."

Must include: Role, current level, goal, time commitment, learning style preference

Step 3: Commit to daily practice

  • Doesn't matter if 1, 5, or 10 minutes - just do it daily around same time
  • Like Duolingo but personalized: your pace, your goals, infinite patience
  • I do 15 min React + 15 min French = 30 min total daily
  • On subway, before bed, whenever works

Step 4: Embrace failure

  • You will get things wrong - that's fine
  • AI explains differently each time until you understand
  • No shame in failing 6 times - it's AI not human, be shameless in learning
  • Don't pretend you understand to move on - make sure you actually get it

Step 5: Track progress

  • Every few days: "Based on my progress this week, what should I focus on next?"
  • Let AI adjust curriculum to your learning pattern
  • Creates structure that works FOR YOU, not generic structure for everyone

The French learning breakthrough:

  • Duolingo 10 min daily for 5 months = A2 level = saved $6-8K skipping 2 semesters
  • But still passive - completing exercises for things already knew
  • With ChatGPT: 10 daily vocab words with testing, paragraphs at exact level, 5 questions with corrections
  • AI predicts what I don't know and addresses proactively
  • "George, all 5 correct. However, punctuations wrong. Here's how to fix. In future if you want to say this, here's how."
  • Not just testing what I know - teaching what I'll need next

Why structure is a scam (sort of):

  • Everyone says "you need structure to learn effectively"
  • Truth: structure is valuable but YOUR structure is not THEIRS
  • Generic curriculums designed to sell courses, not optimize your learning
  • Real structure personalizes to: current level, goals, learning style, time availability, context

What this means for founders:

  • I'm founder not developer - don't need to write production code
  • Need to: review team's code, make architectural decisions, give implementation feedback, guide team
  • Traditional courses assume I want to become full-time developer - I don't
  • AI learning focuses on exactly what I need: understanding React state, debugging issues, reading codebase
  • No wasted time on syntax I'll never use or forcing through 500-page books

The fear of judgment problem:

  • In college: afraid to ask questions, everyone seemed so good at CS/math
  • Wanted to be "George who knows everything" - rather struggle silently than show weakness
  • Fear of professor/peer judgment stopped effective learning
  • With AI: fear is gone, no judgment, no embarrassment, just patient explanation
  • Revolutionary for learning

Template prompt for anything you want to learn: "I'm a [your role] trying to learn [skill] because [reason]. I'm...

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Founder RealityBy George Pu