Tori chats with Grace about being a woman and firstborn in her family. Her father lost his three wives: her mother and her two stepmothers. She grew up in a war country, Burundi. At three, her mother died not from war but during the birth of her young sister. She became her siblings' real mother ( brother eleven years old, sister ten years old, and sister three years old). No one helped her, she never received any help.