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E64 | The Peacemaker’s Dilemma: When Conflict Avoidance Masquerades as Maturity
What if the tension you’ve been avoiding is actually the doorway to deeper connection and lasting peace?
In this honest and often hilarious conversation, Justin and Rhett reflect on the roots of conflict avoidance—starting with a backyard football rivalry that once led to a dramatic “resignation letter” and a short-lived fallout in their decades-long friendship.
That lighthearted story opens the door to a deeper truth: many of us confuse avoiding conflict with spiritual or emotional maturity. But more often, it’s fear in disguise. Rhett shares, “I didn’t know how to have peace in the tension, so I ran from conflict and became the ‘peacemaker.’” What felt like a strength was actually a shield.
Together, they unpack four core drivers that often keep us stuck in patterns of avoidance:
- Fear of vulnerability – the belief that being open will lead to rejection or pain
- Perfectionism – the pressure to appear put-together, leaving no room for messy conversations
- Conflict avoidance – mistaking peacekeeping for peacemaking
- Self-protection – using distance or silence as a shield against emotional risk
Instead of running from tension, they offer a better way—where discomfort becomes an invitation to grow. With biblical insight, lived experience, and practical wisdom, they explore how staying present in hard moments can open the door to authenticity, trust, and deeper connection.
Whether you’re avoiding conversations, relationships, or inner tension, this episode invites you to see those moments not as threats—but as opportunities.
Join us for a journey from avoidance to authenticity—and discover the freedom waiting on the other side of the conflicts you’ve been afraid to face.
Have questions, comments, or ideas? The guys would love to hear from you!
Follow Us:
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Instagram: @armchairauthentic
Twitter: @ArmchairAuthPod
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#ArmchairAuthentic #NewEpisode #PodcastLife #AmbitionAndContentment #FindJoy #AuthenticLiving
Track Title: Brooklyn Bridge | Artist Name(s): Lunareh | Lifetime License Granted Via Soundstripe
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By Rhett and JustinWhat if the tension you’ve been avoiding is actually the doorway to deeper connection and lasting peace?
In this honest and often hilarious conversation, Justin and Rhett reflect on the roots of conflict avoidance—starting with a backyard football rivalry that once led to a dramatic “resignation letter” and a short-lived fallout in their decades-long friendship.
That lighthearted story opens the door to a deeper truth: many of us confuse avoiding conflict with spiritual or emotional maturity. But more often, it’s fear in disguise. Rhett shares, “I didn’t know how to have peace in the tension, so I ran from conflict and became the ‘peacemaker.’” What felt like a strength was actually a shield.
Together, they unpack four core drivers that often keep us stuck in patterns of avoidance:
- Fear of vulnerability – the belief that being open will lead to rejection or pain
- Perfectionism – the pressure to appear put-together, leaving no room for messy conversations
- Conflict avoidance – mistaking peacekeeping for peacemaking
- Self-protection – using distance or silence as a shield against emotional risk
Instead of running from tension, they offer a better way—where discomfort becomes an invitation to grow. With biblical insight, lived experience, and practical wisdom, they explore how staying present in hard moments can open the door to authenticity, trust, and deeper connection.
Whether you’re avoiding conversations, relationships, or inner tension, this episode invites you to see those moments not as threats—but as opportunities.
Join us for a journey from avoidance to authenticity—and discover the freedom waiting on the other side of the conflicts you’ve been afraid to face.
Have questions, comments, or ideas? The guys would love to hear from you!
Follow Us:
Facebook: @armchairauthentic
Instagram: @armchairauthentic
Twitter: @ArmchairAuthPod
Website:
www.armchairauthentic.com
Email Us:
[email protected]
#ArmchairAuthentic #NewEpisode #PodcastLife #AmbitionAndContentment #FindJoy #AuthenticLiving
Track Title: Brooklyn Bridge | Artist Name(s): Lunareh | Lifetime License Granted Via Soundstripe