In the 9th episode of the "Once a Stranger" podcast, Alec's guests are David and Tamara Vanie.  The two discuss their rollercoaster life together as partners.  They tell us about how they met as middle school students in Fort Knox, Kentucky, saying their first "I Love Yous" through glass during a jail visit, navigating the military as young newlyweds and new parents, divorcing during a toxic chapter in their marriage, their path to getting remarried, trials and tribulations of finding their church community, raising 5 kids, and much much more.