We must stay in the fire. Or as Jesus says, like branches in a vine. Which is difficult. We are often detached, disobedient, distracted and distressed. But in the end, a suffering vine makes finer wine. 
1. You will Bear Fruit. We don’t just get fed, we feed.
2. You get what you want, what you really want. Jesus!
3. Jesus gets what he wants - to live through you. 
4. A suffering vine makes finer wine.