In this episode of the Elevate and Dommenate podcast, Goddess Aroya and her co-hosts engage in a deep conversation with Goddess Severa, a pioneer in the fetish world. They explore themes of dominance, submission, and the various archetypes that shape personal identities within BDSM. The discussion delves into Maslow's hierarchy of needs, the art of seduction, and the giantess fetish, while also addressing the complexities of masculinity and femininity in contemporary society. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and personal growth in the context of relationships and power dynamics. In this engaging conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of BDSM dynamics, exploring the significance of archetypes, the importance of authentic connections, and the journey of content creation within the community. They discuss the realities of safety, self-defense, and the responsibility of both dominants and submissives in navigating their relationships. The conversation also touches on the challenges newcomers face and the need for empowerment and awareness of potential predators in the BDSM community

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00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Guests

02:02 Exploring Archetypes in Dominance

04:44 Understanding Archetypes and Their Impact

08 :43 The Hierarchy of Needs in BDSM

11:32 Self-Actualization and Dominance

14:20 Pushing Submissives to Self-Improvement

14:53 The Art of Seduction and Archetypes

16:50 The Art of Connection19:04 Navigating Challenging Dynamics

20:01 Finding Value in Unlikely Connections

21:32 The Professional Facade

22:55 Creating a Better World

24:14 Embracing the Giantess Fetish

26:09 The Allure of Height and Femininity

28:18 Exploring Femininity and Masculinity

31:16 The Duality of Gender Archetypes

33:26 Personal Journeys of Gender Identity

42:03 The Power of Presence in Connection

45:37 The Evolution of a Content Creator

47:24 The Journey of Content Creation

50:21 Exploring Creative Projects

52:55 Navigating the Industry and Personal Experiences (cut and put on Patreon

58:17 Advice for Newcomers in the Lifestyle

\01:03:50 Safety and Self-Defense in the Scene

01:12:39 Empowerment and Responsibility in Relationships

In this episode of the Elevate and Dommenate podcast, Goddess Aroya and Guru Orpheus Black engage in a deep conversation with Mistress Leanne, the founder of the San Diego Femdom Alliance and creator of the Rise Power Mini-Con. They explore the importance of mentorship, intuition in leadership, and the dynamics of power within the BDSM community. Mistress Leanne shares her journey, the significance of creating inclusive spaces, and the legacy of those who have come before. The discussion also touches on the healing aspects of BDSM and the need for education to foster respect and understanding among practitioners. The episode concludes with insights into upcoming events and the vision for the future of the Rise Power Mini-Con.Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Guest02:15 The Birth of San Diego Femdom Alliance03:28 Mistress Leanne's Influences and Mentorship08:15 The Value of Mentorship in BDSM11:17 Intuition in Female Leadership14:19 The Difference Between Topping and Dominating18:54 Creating Inclusive Spaces in BDSM21:09 The Rise Power Mini-Con25:52 Legacy and Community in BDSM29:49 Quick Power Pulse Game34:28 Healing and Trauma in BDSM37:24 Future Vision for Rise40:18 Upcoming Events and Performances44:57 Addressing Animosity Between Male and Female Doms48:40 The Importance of Education in BDSM52:31 Closing Thoughts and Future Collaborations01:00:46 Season 3 Outro.MP4

join our patreon.com/elevateanddommenate to get the exclusive 23 minute BTS Interview woth Mistress Odessa and Goddess AroyaThe conversation highlights the layered language of female dominance. Attending DomCon provided valuable experiences and insights. Teaching and learning in kink is an ongoing journey.Confidence plays a crucial role in expressing dominance.Humor can enhance the experience of authority in kink.Exploring new experiences can lead to personal growth.Communication is key in establishing control and command.Subtlety can be more powerful than overt authority.The evolution of personal growth is essential in the kink journey.It's important to recalibrate and find one's path in life.

Chapters00:00 Introduction to Kink and Conversation03:20 Reflections on DomCon Experiences05:53 Teaching and Learning in Kink08:37 Navigating the Journey of Dominance10:39 The Evolution of Self and Community13:15 Understanding Power Dynamics in Kink16:03 Future Aspirations and Opportunities22:10 Navigating Boundaries in Kink Relationships26:11 Exploring the Dynamics of Trust and Comfort29:40 The Intersection of Performance and Kink33:45 Finding Sisterhood in the Kink Community37:29 Humor and Seriousness in Kink Practices39:44 The Joy of Playfulness in BDSM41:30 Unspoken Cues and Verbal Commands in Dominance44:11 The Art of Seduction and Control46:42 Humor and Humiliation in BDSM Sessions48:39 Navigating Personal Growth and Professional Identity52:04 Finding Balance and Recalibrating Life54:10 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Confidence57:36 Embracing Change and Future Aspirations01:01:40 Season 3 Outro.MP4

Cigars X Kink: A Bold Look at Ritual and Pleasure In this intimate and atmospheric episode of the Elevate & Dommenate podcast, Orpheus Black gives Goddess Aroya a personal lesson at Genuine Cigar Lounge in Santa Clarita ,a space where smoke, power, and presence come together.Orpheus shares his deep knowledge of cigar culture, guiding Aroya through:    •    How to choose a quality cigar    •    The ritual and reverence of smoking    •    Ancestral and sacred uses of tobacco    •    The deep ties between cigars, leather, and the kink community    •    Cigar service dynamics in D/s relationships    •    The art of pairing cigars with the right alcoholThis isn’t just about indulgence—it’s about ritual, control, and the slow burn of intentional pleasure.🎙️ Tap in for a bold conversation on the intersection of tradition, dominance, and desire.#ElevateAndDommenate #CigarsXKink #GoddessAroya #OrpheusBlack #CigarPlay #LeatherAndSmoke #PowerRituals #SantaClaritaNights #BDSMVoices #CigarService #DommeEnergy #PleasureWithPurpose #KinkCulture

In this fast and fiery 6-minute interview, we sit down with the radiant and unfiltered Mx Kitty Babylon, host of the Good Love Podcast, as she shares her powerful origin story—how the pulsating world of strip clubs opened the door to her journey into kink, power, and pleasure.In this candid DomCon 2025 conversation, she reveals:How the strip club became her first kink classroomThe evolution from entertainer to empowered dominantMx Kitty Babylon reminds us that good love starts with truth—and that kink is often the most honest place to begin. Whether you're a baby sub, a budding Domme, or just curious how the pole led to the playroom, this short interview delivers insight with bite.🔔 Subscribe for more DomCon exclusives, and drop a comment if you’ve ever found freedom in unexpected places…https://l.instagram.com/?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.mxkittybabalon.com%2F%3Ffbclid%3DPAQ0xDSwLVX4xleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABp13VPS7JhAC90eHJ5iqXeVUiOqpPnpB_fogb_ehkayt5CgpLLKK0uOm5TPbA_aem_yiANSn0DnOt0BXGyxpzhOg&e=AT11KWxkAQ5nrAtE2qjOv6IBrnMYXGs2Qagfb_MIqd4bBYAOw_kg8bQ92VLoSeq0jA99e9imgqEYEz1fb6t7xp_WEz7RMe-bwLqDN6asF3G5xpp96c6bx9I#DomCon2025 #MxKittyBabylon #GoodLovePodcast #StripperToKink #KinkEducation #SexPositivity #ConsentCulture #ElevateAndDommenate #BDSMVoices #FemDomEnergy

Meet Goddess of Paine, a fresh forces in the FemDom scene, as she sits down for an intimate 6-minute interview at DomCon 2025. New to the public kink community—but no stranger to dominance, Goddess of Paine shares her early insights, raw passion, and rising hunger for power and connection.In this brief but potent conversation, she discusses:What drew her into the world of BDSM and female-led power dynamics🔔 Subscribe to catch more voices from DomCon 2025 and follow Goddess of Paine as she carves out her throne.#DomCon2025 #GoddessOfPaine #NewDominatrix #FemDomRising #BDSM #KinkCommunity #ElevateAndDommenate #ConsentCulture #PowerExchange #DommeInTraining

Step into the shadowy embrace of The Dallas Devil, known to many as The Commandant—in this raw and revealing 6-minute interview captured at DomCon 2025. Based in Dallas, Texas, but ever eager to travel for the right submissive, The Commandant is a sensual succubus, a Dominatrix of precision and presence, and a master of the art of seductive torment. In this candid conversation, she opens up about her first experience in Kink.🔔 Subscribe for more exclusive DomCon content, and don't forget to like and comment if you’re ready to step into the darkness… https://hausofthecommandant.com/?fbclid=PAQ0xDSwLVFb9leHRuA2FlbQIxMQABp-MPAyAXiHj1E0VP0r5fV7P0sWt3YyaeS7jgJayNmQTbKxa-0EltyBDlK_uq_aem_y0_FvuibJZBPnHEgJj3wCA#DomCon2025 #DallasDevil #Commandant #BDSM #DominatrixInterview #SensualSuccubus #KinkCommunity #FemDom #ConsentCulture #ElevateAndDommenate

In this episode of Elevate and Dominate, Kemo Burns, a renowned rope artist, shares insights into the emotional and spiritual dimensions of rope bondage. The conversation explores the importance of negotiation, consent, and risk awareness in kink, as well as the misconceptions surrounding rope bondage. Kemo discusses their journey in the rope community, the influence of other artists, and their aspirations for the future, including teaching opportunities. In this engaging conversation, Kemo Burns shares insights into the world of rope bondage, emphasizing the importance of connection, communication, and experience. The discussion explores how integrating movement practices, such as contemporary dance and martial arts, can enhance the art of rope. Kemo reflects on personal experiences, the significance of consent, and the evolving nature of relationships within the kink community. The conversation also touches on upcoming events and the joy of learning and growing within this unique practice.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Kemo Burns and Rope Bondage03:04 The Emotional Aspects of Rope Bondage05:46 Negotiation in Kink: Setting Boundaries and Intentions08:59 Safe Words and Consent in Rope Bondage11:55 Risk Awareness and Communication in Rope Sessions14:55 Exploring Vulnerability and Intimacy in Kink18:05 Misconceptions About Rope Bondage20:58 Inspiration and Learning in Rope Bondage24:08 Future Aspirations and Teaching Opportunities27:31 The Art of Rope Bondage and Connection30:23 Deepening the Practice: Integrating Movement and Martial Arts37:30 The Importance of Experience in Kink42:04 Navigating Communication and Consent in Scenes50:24 Upcoming Events and Community Engagement

In this engaging conversation, Goddess Aroya Lessons interviews Mistress Mia Darque, a prominent figure in the BDSM community. They explore Mia's journey from her early experiences in Mississippi to her current role as a mentor in BDSM. The discussion delves into themes of sexuality, personal growth, and the importance of mentorship, highlighting the complexities of love and limits within the BDSM lifestyle. Mia shares her candid reflections on her past, the evolution of her identity, and the significance of community support in navigating the kink world. In this engaging conversation, Goddess Aroya Lessons and Mistress Mia Darque explore themes of emotional support, overcoming adversity, body positivity, and the power of voice. They share personal stories of resilience, the importance of inclusivity in the community, and the challenges faced in the arts and education. The discussion also touches on financial responsibility and self-investment, emphasizing the need for individuals to take control of their narratives and experiences. In this engaging conversation, Goddess Aroya Lessons and Mistress Mia Darque explore themes of materialism, self-worth, and the pressures of societal expectations. They discuss the importance of budgeting for fashion, especially when attending events like DomCon, and share practical advice on how to present oneself stylishly without overspending. The conversation also touches on the etiquette of attending DomCon, emphasizing the importance of understanding boundaries and the professional nature of the event. The discussion concludes with reflections on personal growth and future plans, highlighting the importance of community and support in their respective journeys.Chapters00:00 Introduction to BDSM and Mistress Mia Darque07:17 Mistress Mia's Journey in BDSM18:13 Identifying Sexuality and Mentorship23:40 Reflections on Personal Growth and Experiences31:02 Emotional Support and Connection37:36 The Power of Voice and Expression43:44 Navigating the Arts and Education51:24 Confronting Challenges and Standing Ground01:01:31 Materialism and Self-Worth01:09:02 Budgeting for Style01:16:20 Navigating DomCon Etiquette01:21:25 Final Thoughts and Future Plans

In this episode of the Elevate and Dommenate podcast, our host Goddess Aroya Lessons, miMistress Odessa and, Sir Orpheus Black engage in a deep conversation with Doc Domina, a professional dominatrix, bodybuilder, and clinical psychologist. The discussion explores the intersection of kink, mental health, and identity, emphasizing the importance of radical acceptance and community engagement. The hosts share personal experiences, including fitness competitions and the journey into needle play, while also highlighting the role of Patreon in supporting their work and community. In this engaging conversation, the participants explore various themes surrounding body image, fitness, and the dynamics of BDSM. They delve into playful banter about challenges and personal experiences, discuss the intersection of humiliation and degradation in kink, and highlight the importance of trauma-informed care within these practices. The conversation also touches on gender dynamics in BDSM, emphasizing the differences in approach between male and female dominants. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the intricate dynamics of pain and pleasure within the BDSM community, exploring how these experiences can be both cathartic and restorative. They discuss the importance of communication, self-discovery, and understanding personal boundaries in kink. The conversation also touches on the therapeutic aspects of BDSM, emphasizing the need for practitioners to be aware of their own limits and desires. The speakers share insights on breath play, the art of pain, and the significance of creating a safe space for exploration.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Kink and Healing

03:24 Exploring Identity and Intersectionality

09:15 Radical Acceptance in Kink and Mental Health

17:30 Needle Play: A Journey of Discovery

25:15 Fitness Competitions and Personal Growth

32:26 Patreon and Community Engagement

36:52 Playful Banter and Challenges

38:29 Body Image and Fitness Dynamics

40:25 Humiliation and Degradation in Kink

42:40 Integrating Fitness and Kink

49:11 Gender Dynamics in BDSM

53:03 Trauma-Informed Care in Kink

57:36 Exploring Pain and Pleasure Dynamics

01:00:51 The Art of Breath Play

01:05:02 Understanding Pain and Discomfort

01:10:03 The Importance of Communication in BDSM

01:14:07 Self-Discovery and Boundaries in Kink

01:19:24 Therapeutic Aspects of BDSM

01:21:02 Closing Thoughts and Future Events