I hear it all the time: "I'd love to date, but feel so gross."

"I need to lose 20 lbs before I even think about dating." 

"My C-section scar/stretch marks/tear will gross out any guy!"

I have plenty of hangups about my post-baby body, too -- but after lots of field research have found that a) guys don't care. Seriously, they don't. b) Beauty is really idendependent of our bodies. c) Guys have their own stuff they're insecure about!