In this episode of Project Joyful, host Tracy Tutty explores the powerful emotion of dread and how it can impact our experiences and overall happiness.

Tracy explains that emotions serve as signposts, providing valuable insights into our thoughts, beliefs, and perspectives. While it is natural to want to avoid discomfort and anxiety, she emphasizes that all emotions are valid and can offer profound learning opportunities.

 

Key Takeaways:

• Understanding the nature of dread: Tracy delves into the definition of dread as the anticipation of something with great apprehension or fear. She highlights the importance of recognizing that our minds often struggle to differentiate between imagined future scenarios and present reality, leading to physiological responses in our bodies.
• The weight of anticipation: Tracy discusses how prolonged and intense focus on anticipated pain or anxiety can actually make it more distressing than the actual event itself. She cites research that suggests most people prefer getting the painful thing over with rather than having it loom over them.
• Navigating dread: Tracy shares insights from neuroscientist Lisa Feldman Barrett, who suggests asking ourselves whether the feeling of dread may have a purely physical cause. If so, taking care of our bodies through hydration, deep breathing, stretching, or a light meal can help. If the cause is not physical, spending time examining the expectations and underlying reasons behind the emotion can provide clarity and potential for change.

 

Dread doesn't have to be our constant companion. It can serve as a catalyst for growth, change, and finding joy in our lives. By understanding the role of emotions, particularly dread, and taking charge of our responses, we can consciously create a life we love and experience deep joy moment by moment.