Fierce, Kind Mama of Multiples

Embracing Interdependence: Nurturing Bonds in Parenthood


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In this solo episode, Dr. Cristina delves into the concept of independence, examining it from the perspectives of both parents and children. The inspiration for this discussion came from a listener's question about co-sleeping with her four-year-old twins. This query prompted a broader exploration of infant and childhood sleep patterns and the societal norms surrounding independent sleeping.

The episode delves into the historical and cultural practices surrounding sleep. From communal sleeping to  private bedrooms, Dr. Cristina discusses how this transition was driven by concerns of modesty and privacy, reflecting evolving societal norms.

She also discusses co-sleeping, a practice that varies widely across cultures. Dr. Cristina emphasizes the importance of understanding these practices within their cultural and historical contexts. She acknowledges that co-sleeping remains a topic of contention, with differing perspectives on its benefits and risks.

Dr. Cristina challenges the idea that independence should be the ultimate goal for both parents and children. Drawing from compassion-focused therapy, she asserts that humans are inherently wired for nurturance and connection. She emphasizes that interdependence is a defining feature of humanity, essential for survival and overall well-being.



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Fierce, Kind Mama of MultiplesBy Dr Cristina Cavezza