Dr. Kelly Flanagan joins the podcast today to explore the reflective journey through the late forties, discussing the transformative power of embracing life’s limitations and the wisdom that comes with age. From celebrating milestones like birthdays and family weekends to making profound lifestyle shifts such as embracing sobriety, Kelly shares insightful narratives that reveal how midlife can be a time of deep self-discovery and personal growth. Matt and Kelly’s conversations about the challenges and triumphs of this life stage provides you a roadmap to navigating your own midlife transitions with grace and intention. Whether you're approaching this phase of life or simply interested in the art of living well, this episode is filled with inspiration and practical advice.

Chapters:

• 00:00:00 - Celebrations and Reflections: Past Vs. Present
• 00:02:02 - A New Chapter at 47: Sobriety and Insight
• 00:04:42 - The Strength of Community: Lessons in Connection
• 00:06:18 - Lessons in Leadership from Front Row Dads
• 00:08:33 - The Impact of Shared Experiences and Advice
• 00:10:57 - Embracing Change Through Community Support
• 00:13:54 - The Creative Struggle: Embracing Vulnerability
• 00:16:44 - From Conflict to Connection: Heartfelt Insights
• 00:20:45 - Emotional Safety: Understanding and Overcoming Judgment
• 00:21:38 - Holding Friends Accountable Without Judgement
• 00:23:27 - Mastering Relationships: The Interdependence Principle
• 00:25:51 - Authorial Vulnerability: The Inner Truths of Writing
• 00:29:15 - Presence Over Perfection: The Freedom of Letting Go
• 00:34:19 - Revealing the 'Control Sneak': Reframing Control
• 00:36:05 - Reflecting on Control: Personal Stories of Growth
• 00:38:22 - Strategies for Letting Go and Enhancing Connections
• 00:41:00 - Final Reflections: Deepening Connections and Presence

Links And Resources:

• Dr. Kelly Flanagan
• Books authored by Dr. Kelly Flanagan
• Dr. Kelly on Instagram
• Dr. Kelly on LinkedIn
• Dr. Kelly on Facebook
• Find all of Kelly’s links on his LinkTree here
• Subscribe to HUMANING on Substack

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