Empowerment is the act of being able to make choices in your life and taking control of your own destiny. It is an empowering feeling when you know that you have options and can make a difference in your world. People want to feel empowered because it makes them feel better about themselves, more confident, and more like they can make their own successes happen.

In today’s episode, we are joined by Martha Aguilar to help us encourage women to take control of their own lives through communities. As a young teen growing up, Martha Aguilar began in the Childcare industry at the young age of 14. For nearly a decade, Martha went from being a recreation counselor to a teacher’s assistant and later a babysitter for over 15 families, and it was clear that her life purpose was to Serve. At 20 years old, Martha would outgrow the childcare industry and had a calling to serve at a larger scale. Through the power of choice, she recreated her identity.

Martha is a proud Latina woman living in Northern Jersey Native with diverse surroundings. Throughout the last three years of working in childcare, she committed to working on her self-development and self-teaching many skills that she later monetized down the road. Martha assisted the Leaders of Tomorrow, our children. In October of 2020, Martha transitioned to assist our leaders of Today via Virtual Assisting.

Tune in!

In This Episode, You Will Learn: 

[02:10] A bit about our guest, Martha Aguilar, and what she does in her space

[03:35] Why’s community service so dear and important to Martha

[06:56] Attributes to have before building a strong and healthy community

[12:40] Tips on how to create communities that will attract many people

[15:04] How freedom of expression can make brevity from timidity

[19:44] How can women nurture their boundaries and avoid being victims 

[29:55] Women need to understand the dynamics of how men process things

[33:45] Emotional intelligence and decision making

[45:41] Be loud in your actions, bet very quiet in your promises

[50:19] Master your emotions by mastering your thoughts first

[52:59] You need to join a community near you

[54:07] Episode wrap up and calls to action

Notable Quotes

• The more we attract and receive in our lives, the more we can give.
• We all have emotions. It all depends on how you process them and show them. 
• Who you are and how you process information shows your conscious choices to learn particular things.
• In any relationship, always under promise but overdeliver.
• If you can master your thoughts, you’ll have mastered your emotions.

Connect With Us! 

Martha Aguilar

Website: https://www.marthaelizabeth.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marthaaelizabeth/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marthaea/

I AIM Community Website: https://www.iaimcommunity.com/

Mareli VA Website: https://www.mareliva.co/ 

Susan Hum, The LoveHacker

Website: https://www.susanhum.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susanhum/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susanthelovehacker/

Facebook:  https://web.facebook.com/groups/steelrosemovement?

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjh9Wy0Wdi7_Wuh0LFFMvhQ/video