Real encouragement isn't cheerleading from a distance or a warm note slipped into someone's gear bag. It's getting close enough to see what someone is actually carrying, what they're capable of, and what they're in danger of leaving behind, and then naming it to their face. The writer of Hebrews goes even further: this community is supposed to provoke one another toward love and good works with the kind of friction that produces a reaction. Drift rarely announces itself, and the community that sees it and says nothing isn't practicing grace. It's practicing avoidance and calling it grace. There is someone in your life right now who needs you to stop giving them space.