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Ending Dates Well [Quickie]


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Ever found yourself on a date, debating between leaving on a high or just gritting your teeth to the finish? In this episode, we're uncovering the art of gracefully wrapping up dates, with a spotlight on our comfort and safety. Let's navigate the intricacies of those initial encounters. Eager to dive deep? Let's get rolling!

Show Notes 

[00:00:00] - Introduction

  • Ending dates and the decision to leave.

[00:00:30] - Slowing down the intimacy of a date 

  • The importance of not rushing into physical intimacy.

[00:00:43] - Ending the Date with Kindness

  • Strategies for ending the date while respecting personal boundaries.

[00:01:20] - Pre-Date Communication

  • Setting time limits beforehand.
  • Suggestions for limited-duration activities.
  • Why bad dates feel like a wasted night.

[00:02:02] - Addressing Concerns and Fears

  • Overcoming the fear of other people's reactions.
  • Prioritizing personal feelings over societal pressure.

[00:02:40] - Handling Potential Negative Reactions

  • Fears of confrontation or anger.
  • The importance of safety and recognizing potential danger signs.

[00:03:16] - Safety Tips for First Dates

  • Keeping personal details private.
  • Limiting access to personal information.

[00:03:39] - Prioritizing Personal Safety

  • Safeguarding personal information.
  • The danger of sharing too much too soon.

[00:04:14] - Addressing Ghosting

  • The downsides of ghosting.
  • Effective ways to communicate disinterest.

[00:04:39] - Clear Communication Post-Date

  • Importance of clear communication.

[00:05:19] - Closing Thoughts

  • The importance of self-respect and avoiding enduring unfavorable situations.
  • Advocate for personal boundaries in dating and intimate situations.

[00:05:38] - Outro

  • Gratitude for listeners and encouragement to join the next discussion.
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GETSOMEBy Michelle Fischler