So being engaged is a good thing, also being married is a good thing and even being divorced can be a good thing if you are getting out of a bad marriage where someone cheated on you thru infidelity a term we use in church. So, lift up your head and be happy with the spouse God has giving you and if you're not married wait for them! Now let me speak to the young people specifically: One thing young women/men, rest in your spirit; in other words, live your life pure and in a way that you don't have to compromise, little girls don't go out undressed or half dress, if the dress is too short get a longer one, if the blouse is too low cut get another one but don't put yourself in a compromising position. Boys pull your pants up on your butt, don't go out trying to prove somebody of what you got. Most people know that by nature God gave you the same equipment that he gave every male, so don't worry about how endowed you are because when you grow up the woman that's meant for you, is going to be perfect so you don't need anything extra. Don't compromise or endanger your happiness by getting entangled with the wrong person, be patient, the right person will come along when you least expect them! Because the devil via spirit of lust is an equal opportunist, he doesn't discriminate in essence he attacks us all the same.