Many of us live life to be able to say, “at least I’ve done it!” Or, “I just have to get through it and I’ll be happy.” Many of us feel insufficient if we have not done certain things with our life at this point in time. Our social lives have become for the sake of photos of events, not enjoying events, and saying “at least I’ve done it!” Or, “I just have to get through it and I’ll be happy.” ... The truth is, this mental belief system can stop us from enjoying life for what life is. Removing that mindset can even allow us to enjoy suffering and pain. The overall quality of life has not been damaged, but our ability to enjoy has been damaged ~ and this can be a place of deep transformation from Jesus.