All Things Excellence

Enneagram and Marriage: How Knowing Our Types Saved Our Relationship


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This week on All Things Excellence, I’m bringing you behind the scenes into one of the most transformational tools we’ve used in our marriage: the Enneagram. I'm joined by my husband, Kobi — our most-loved guest — to share how understanding our Enneagram types changed everything for us.

As a certified Enneagram coach (and someone who's obsessed with uncovering what drives human behavior), I’ll walk you through how Kobi and I, an Enneagram 8 (The Challenger) and an Enneagram 9 (The Peacemaker), learned to navigate communication, conflict, emotional bandwidth, and deep-rooted patterns—without using the Enneagram as a sword or a shield. Instead we use it as a daily tool to have greater excellence in our communication in all areas of life.

In this episode, we’re sharing the raw, the hilarious, and the deeply real parts of how two very different wiring systems found a way to not just survive—but thrive with full respect—together. If you’ve ever felt misunderstood in your relationships, if you’ve ever wondered why you and your partner (or previous partners) clash or freeze, or if you’re curious about how the Enneagram could change your marriage/relationships, this one’s for you.

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All Things ExcellenceBy Chelsey DeBruin-Colbert