What if the reason you keep doubting yourself… isn’t because something is wrong with you, but because you were taught the wrong definition of worthiness?
Many women spend their lives trying to prove they are enough — through productivity, success, relationships, or perfection.
But your worth was never something you had to earn.
In this episode, Tyona Vallejo explores the deeper truth about worthiness and how the conditioning we receive in childhood and society can make us believe our value depends on how we perform, behave, or achieve.
You’ll learn how feelings of unworthiness are often connected to nervous system patterns and limiting beliefs — and how reconnecting with your inherent worth can transform the way you show up in your life, relationships, and work.
In This Episode
• The difference between inherent worth and earned worth
• Why high-achievers often tie productivity to value
• How childhood conditioning shapes self-worth
• The role of the nervous system in feelings of unworthiness
• How reclaiming your worth changes your behavior and relationships
Chapters
00:00 Understanding Worthiness
00:49 The Pressure of Proving Worth
01:14 Reconnecting with Inherent Worth
01:36 Understanding Worthiness
03:51 The Distortion of Worthiness
04:49 Understanding Unworthiness and Worthiness
05:47 Understanding Worthiness Through Connection
07:31 The Proving Pattern and Its Consequences
08:25 Stepping into New Opportunities
08:25 Navigating Challenges in Personal Growth
08:25 Understanding Worthiness
10:31 The Misconception of Superiority in Worthiness
10:42 Understanding Worthiness Conditioning
12:49 The Truth About Worthiness
14:04 Reclaiming Worthiness: Mind and Body Connection
15:45 Rescripting Negative Narratives and Somatic Healing
15:59 Uncovering Worthiness: The Journey Begins
17:13 Transforming Self-Talk and Building Confidence
17:16 Understanding Worthiness and Self-Value
18:05 Healing Worthiness Wounds
18:05 Exploring Worthiness in Decision Making
18:05 Understanding Worthiness and Self-Doubt
18:33 Coaching for Confidence and Self-Trust
18:44 Introduction to the Conversation
18:44 Exploring Key Themes
Work With Tyona
If this episode resonated with you and you're ready to break free from self-doubt and reconnect with your confidence and self-trust, Tyona offers 1-1 coaching designed to help women regulate their nervous system, shift their mindset, and transform their relationships with themselves and others.
Learn more about working with Tyona here:
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