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Ep 020: Married Red Pill Reinvention with Adam Lane Smith


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Adam Lane Smith is a Psychotherapist who has counseled numerous men in rocky marriages seeking to break the mold and reclaim their role of masculine leader in the home.
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Many of the men Adam counsels are suffering from the consequences of years steeped in a blue pill beta framework they’ve been conditioned with from the time they were children.
Adam is a brother in The Fraternity of Excellence. Inside the walls of the fraternity I’ve had the opportunity to witness first-hand the advice he provides to men looking to upgrade their marriages and improve the sexual desire they’re receiving from their wives.
He has a penchant for articulating what it takes for a man to reinvent himself in marriage after being red-pilled, and he does it in a way that breaks the problems and their solutions down into digestible, actionable parcels of wisdom.
Even more important is the way Adam connects his philosophies of applying the red pill in marriage to the way men and women are intrinsically designed to respond to the stimulus of interacting with the opposite sex.
This quality of his is evident throughout today’s podcast. Here are the highlights of our discussion.
Show Highlights
- The consequences blue pill betas face in marriage
- The most important thing newly red pill men must do to reinvent themselves in marriage
- Why a domineering approach to reestablishing leadership as a husband doesn't work
- How a wife's hypergamous nature reacts to a vacuum of leadership in the home
- The biggest mistake guys make when trying to get more sex from their wives
- The fundamental differences between male and female sexuality
- What masculine qualities drive a woman's sexual desire with the greatest intensity
- Why modern men are becoming beta at such an alarming rate
- The purpose behind the compliance tests issued by women (i.e. shit tests)
- Communication tactics to get what you want from your wife and marriage
- Why a man showing vulnerability in marriage isn't always bad
- Why compliance tests increase in frequency and intensity when a man begins to take personal responsibility and starts improving himself
- What frame is and why it's so important for a married man's red pill reinvention of himself
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