Jojo has been in a relationship with Amos* for seven years, but she’s also been together with Kevin* for four. While her polyamorous lifestyle is not unheard of, its often thought of as sexually promiscuous, or lacking respect for the sanctity of a monogamous love. Because how can we love more than one person at a time? But in reality, Jojo shares that this modern take on love has taught her emotional maturity, good communication, and the capacity to love like never before. This season, we want to feature unique stories about love. We’re celebrating Valentine’s Day with Jojo’s story on how polyamory changed her life for the better.

*names have been changed to protect identity