Healing Myself

Ep. 1: Here for the first time.


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Taking the first step towards a new venture or a new season could be crazy scary. But guess what? You have to do it scared. 

It takes a great amount of courage to step forward and to be vulnerable. But take comfort in life’s recurring theme that what’s past your fears is always a better, smarter, and stronger version of you. 


WHAT TO LISTEN FOR: 

Why we struggle with love and life [00:55] 

  • We may have been making this difficult (without realizing it) 

  • Repeating patterns because we don’t have information on how to deal with things 

  • Comparing the live we’re living with others’ 

  • Forgetting that healing is a process, and that it has to be taken one step at a time 

  • We’re afraid of being judged and being vulnerable 

Finding your calling and taking steps towards it [9:28] 

  • Learning from other mistakes 

  • Walking away from the idea of being a “savior” for others; being there for others (e.g. loved ones) is enough 

  • Starting a ‘passion project’

  • Evolving your the way you think—thrive instead of survive 

  • Creating and being in a space where everybody has grace towards each other 

The haze of taking the first step [21:46]

  • Worrying about how others perceive you: “What if they don’t like me?” 

  • Finding the courage to move and make choices towards love

Navigating the haze of taking the first step [25:40]

  • Being in a healthy relationship where there’s support 

  • Moving forward, no matter how scary things could be 

  • Getting out of your comfort show and trusting God 

  • Showing up and giving yourself credit for doing so 

  • Being honest about who you really are

  • People may like it, people may not, but you do you 


RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE:

Daring Greatly by Brene Brown 

Listen to Higher Calling by Big K.R.I.T.


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Healing MyselfBy Scott and Shaté Hayes