This episode delves into the fantasy versus reality of D/s relationships, the problem of trying to come up with a "reason" why someone is kinky, and the importance of advocating for yourself and setting boundaries in any relationship, but especially a kinky one.

 

Content warnings for this episode: slut shaming, discussion of sexual assault, jealous/controlling behavior, toxic monogamy, patriarchy/rape culture, kinkshame, bad dominance, disordered attitudes toward food, sexual relations with a minor, stigma/stereotypes around kink.

 

Find Leigh elsewhere online: allmylinks.com/leighcartist for her "vanilla" work, or allmylinks.com/candikitten for her adult work.

 

Find this podcast elsewhere: allmylinks.com/thecurdledpod

 

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