We get honest about the ways we’ve gotten marriage wrong, from comparison and selfishness to leaving expectations unspoken. We share what’s helped us grow, including setting a plan for our marriage and learning to fight fair so small conflicts don’t turn into big damage.
• Comparing each other to past marriages and how “that’s not how we did it” sparks fights 
• Small daily annoyances turning into huge blowups 
• Learning better communication through “It Made Me Feel” language 
• Naming expectations and setting marriage goals on purpose 
• Navigating work hours, resentment and different interpretations of effort 
• Using counseling, friends and practical tools to keep improving 
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