Thanks to an Email from Simon, Chris and Pete are forced to rethink an earlier chat about the commercial selfishness of self-care. Did missionaries, by giving away everything, do the opposite of self-care? Can self-care be about looking after others by looking after ourselves? Simon’s question makes them rethink their thinking… just like an Oddfather podcast should! Do we help ourselves first? Or others first? What is extreme self-denial? Do we need more of that?