Let’s be real—parenting is hard, and the pressure to “get it all right” can feel overwhelming. In this episode of Training Them Wisely, Rene and Rebekah pull back the curtain on the myth of the perfect parent and offer a refreshing reminder: God doesn’t call us to perfection, but to faithfulness, humility, and honesty.

Join us as we talk about discipling our children from a place of authenticity, not image. You'll hear practical stories, biblical encouragement, and real-life examples of how God uses our weaknesses to display His grace.

💬 Why perfection isn’t the goal—and how God works through our realness

📖 2 Corinthians 12:9: “My grace is sufficient for you…”

💥 The cultural and church pressures parents feel to appear perfect

🛠️ Practical ways to disciple your kids when you're tired, overwhelmed, or discouraged

🗣️ How to have “real talk” moments with your kids about struggles and God’s faithfulness

🧎‍♀️ The power of apologizing, praying together, and modeling dependence on Jesus

💛 Encouragement to let go of the image and embrace the grace

2 Corinthians 12:9–10 – “My grace is sufficient for you…”

Proverbs 3:5–6 – “Trust in the Lord with all your heart…”

Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted…”

Philippians 1:6 – “He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion…”

Journal about areas where you feel weak as a parent—and ask God for strength

Share age-appropriate struggles with your kids to model humility

Apologize when needed—it builds trust and models grace

Create a family “realness board” or prayer journal for tracking daily wins and struggles

Have open conversations about depending on God together

📘 Training Them Wisely: Discipling Kids by Rene Christensen

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