Widows are judged by society, judged by family, judged by friends, judged by themselves, and even judged by other widows.  Sometimes it seems a competition among widows for who is the saddest or who has the most heart-breaking story to tell.  Let's raise each other up!  Time to change the discourse!  You can reach me at [email protected]  or  https://Joannthelifecoach.com