In this beautifully messy episode, Tyler and Mary dive deep into the transformative power of clearing exercises and authentic ritual. Through their 25-year friendship, they've developed practices that cut through the noise of aspirational thinking and get to the heart of what matters. Mary vulnerably shares how a "productive lie" led to profound truth, while they explore their time-tested New Year's ritual - a seven-hour journey through accomplishments, regrets, resentments, and the eternal question of "what's next?"

This conversation isn't your typical goal-setting pep talk. It's about the gritty, honest work of looking in the mirror, naming what's incomplete, and finding the "one thing" that makes everything else easier or unnecessary. Tyler and Mary challenge the Instagram-ready declarations of "new year, new me" by offering a more grounded path: deep introspection, radical honesty, and a commitment to actionable change.

Whether you're a seeker, a teacher, or someone searching for more authentic ways to grow, this episode invites you into intimate dialogue about what it truly means to hold space, embrace constraints, and allow life to change us rather than trying to force change upon life.

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