It's not THE TALK you think! What this episode is about is the tough conversations people are afraid to have right now about race. We are all being hurt right now. Whether it's by the silence of our non black friends or we are doing the hurting by not communicating with our friends about our pain. It's time to sit down and have a talk. I've got some strategies to help get the conversations going with your parents about their views on racism and on how to forgive if you are hurt by your friends.