In Episode 132, we sit down with Tayem Mercer, a powerful and thoughtful voice in Ireland’s cultural conversation. From growing up in Congo to building a life in Tallaght, Tayem brings honesty, depth and a fearless willingness to challenge mainstream narratives — especially around racism, identity and media manipulation. We talk about his early life in Congo, moving to Ireland in 2001, learning the language, finding his place, and how Tallaght shaped both his personality and his outlook on Irish life. Tayem shares why he believes Irish people aren’t naturally racist, and how online outrage, media framing and political agendas often distort reality and fuel division. We dive into the difference between race, culture and integration, how attitudes have shifted over the years, and how to tell genuine racism from general frustration about immigration. Tayem unpacks the modern obsession with victimhood, why the “oppressed narrative” is so seductive and dangerous, and how gratitude and personal responsibility changed his own life. We get into the Citywest protests, immigration policy, and the role he plays as a Black Irish Christian in a conversation that’s becoming more polarised by the day. Tayem also opens up about his faith, the rise of secular unhappiness, and why global Christian persecution — especially in Nigeria — receives so little attention compared to other conflicts. From the damage porn is doing to young men, to purpose, divorce, and why so many men feel lost, Tayem offers grounded, hard-earned advice. He also talks about his experience on “Dinner with the Enemy”, what it taught him about conflict, listening, and why people today struggle so much with opposing viewpoints. We wrap up with Tayem’s message to Ireland right now — and where people can follow his work. Raw, challenging, hopeful and full of clarity. This episode pulls no punches. Enjoy.