What happens when a mother of the bride knows her limits—and hires a planner to save the day? In this heartfelt episode of Weddings Unscripted, Alex and Alison chat with Stephanie, whose daughter’s Chesapeake Bay wedding went off without a hitch thanks to the help of a talented wedding planner.

Stephanie shares what it was like helping plan a destination-inspired wedding in Maryland while the couple lived in Florida, and how her planner, Rebecca Thomas, became her trusted guide, timeline-keeper, and behind-the-scenes “angel.” If you’re a parent navigating the wedding process, or a planner wondering how to better serve your clients, this one is full of real-life lessons and love.

 

Episode Timestamps:

[00:01:00] – Meet Stephanie: Mother of the bride

[00:03:00] – Why a shorter wedding timeline was actually a blessing

[00:08:00] – Finding her planner, and why it was the best decision

[00:10:00] – The magic of having “homework” and a timeline from your planner

[00:14:00] – Ceremony by the water, flower details, and signature cocktails

[00:20:00] – Why a planner matters for everyone, not just the couple

[00:28:00] – Behind the music: coordinating the band with precision

[00:34:00] – Advice to other parents on investing in a planner

[00:37:00] – Repurposing florals and the thoughtful touches that made a difference

 

Key Takeaways:

• A good wedding planner doesn’t just manage details—they preserve the entire experience.
• Planners aren't a luxury—they're a necessity when you want to be fully present.
• Choosing a planner early helps shape every decision that follows.
• Behind every calm mother-of-the-bride is a planner with a headset and a timeline.

 

Resources Mentioned:

• Wedding Planner: Rebecca Thomas
• Venue: The Wylder Hotel on Tilghman Island, Maryland
• Florist: Local woman-owned floral business on Maryland’s Eastern Shore

 

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