The holidays can form a family or fracture one. In this episode Brian and Kelly O’Day and Joshua and Brittany Brown unpack how to build Christ-centered traditions that actually move with you—through military life, new cities, and shifting seasons—without losing the heart of the story.

We start with Deuteronomy 6 and treat traditions as discipling tools: daily, ordinary moments that teach love for God while you sit, walk, and rise. You’ll hear practical rhythms like an Advent “doors” countdown with Scripture on December 1, simple generosity challenges (yes, even paying for a stranger’s gas), and why a candle at dinner paired with a short reading can reset a rushed day. We dig into the real tension of merging two upbringings, what to keep, what to release, and how to create new rituals that fit your values now.

Hospitality takes center stage as we draw a line between entertaining and welcoming. Forget perfection; embrace participation. Potlucks, plastic plates, and shared cleanup invite neighbors, single service members, and friends who can’t travel into a living tradition. We also make the case for experiences over more stuff: use your budget for memory-making—local parades, light displays, concerts, or a quiet drive with carols—and capture the car-ride conversations that kids remember for years.

If devotionals help you focus, we mention Advent resources from She Reads Truth, He Reads Truth, John Piper, Nancy Guthrie, and Paul Tripp; if not, reading Luke 2 and the Gospels works beautifully. The thread tying it all together is simple: choose practices that are portable, purposeful, and centered on Jesus. Subscribe, share this with a friend who’s far from home, and tell us one tradition you’ll start or revive this year. Your next tradition can begin tonight.

SHOW NOTES:

She Reads Truth: Advent 2025 | Women's Daily Bible Reading Plan – She Reads Truth

He Reads Truth: Advent 2025 | Men's Bible Reading Plan (DIGITAL) – She Reads Truth

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