Cosmic Love Antenna

EP 141 - Desi Monique: Sexual Alchemy & Sensual Healing


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My beautiful guest for today's show is the Sensual Desi Monique!

Desi Monique. founder of Sensual Somatic LLC and master's student in Women’s Spirituality, Gender, and Social Justice at CIIS, is a somatic sex educator and sensual dance advocate who is passionate about pleasure liberation for sexual trauma survivors.

She’s mentored 80+ women globally in her trauma-informed Sensual Embodiment ™ facilitator training.


See the show notes below for some of the main points (in order) we covered and dived deep into together:


  • What is SEXUAL ALCHEMY?


  • Using our sexual energy in many different ways, both destructive and constructive


  • How we are ALL CREATIVE


  • Why do we need sexual alchemy?


  • Pleasure as a pathway for healing


  • "Entering the dark cave" within sexual connection


  • Not having the tools we need to communicate what we actually want within sexual intimacy


  • Moving through the SHAME OF HAVING A BODY


  • Religious trauma and Ancestral Trauma


  • The Spiritual teaching of "Transcending the Body"


  • "We are broken for wanting sex and broken for not wanting sex"


  • Learning your bodies CAPACITY FOR PLEASURE


  • Sexual expression as an Inner Child Need


  • Giving ourselves permission and meeting our sexual needs


  • Disassociating during sex but wanting connection


  • A divine realization Desi experienced with her sexual being and her FATHER WOUND


  • How can sexual alchemy be nourishing?


  • "Just wanting to be held"


  • The false perceptions and realities we create around sex and intimacy


  • The "3 Minute Game"


  • The flow of a sexual gift without expectation


  • Only touching another for what we think they want and overlooking what they actually need


  • Allowing desires from our heart to come forth during sexual intimacy


  • Desi and her definition of LOVE





Please connect with Desi here:


  • Social: https://instagram.com/sensualsomatic


  • Website: http://sensualsomatic.com/



If you enjoyed this episode make sure you check out the following previous SEXUAL EPISODES:


  • EP 138 - The Chakras & Your SEXUAL Healing (Part4)
  • EP 107 - Kati Blumenauer: Sexual Tantric Energy & the Wounded Masculine
  • EP 70 - Inner Child Core Needs: Sexual Expression
  • EP 67 - Andrei Knight: Tantra, Orgasms & Your DIVINE Sexual Energy
  • EP 11 - Heather Tucker: Sex, Religion & Sensual Connection



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