What if your need for perfectionism and self-abandonment go hand in hand? Many high-achievers have built their success by prioritizing everyone else’s needs over their own. But what happens when the validation fades? Burnout, chronic stress, and a feeling of emptiness that no promotion or paycheck can fill.
In this episode of Beyond the Quo, host Stacey Luces sits down with Dr. Kelly Kessler, a licensed physical therapist and transformation coach, to explore how self-abandonment and perfectionism sabotage success. Through Kelly's personal journey and professional expertise, discover how to reconnect with your inner strength, prioritize self-worth, and transform chronic stress into inner peace. Kelly shares actionable strategies for tuning into your body, setting boundaries, and navigating the emotional complexities of personal growth. This episode is a heartfelt conversation on redefining success, maintaining integrity with oneself, and finding the courage to live authentically.

🎧 In this episode:
•        01:20 Understanding Self-Abandonment
•        03:34 The Impact of Perfectionism
•        07:29 The Importance of Self-Integrity
•        14:21 Tuning into Your Body
•        24:16 A Moment of Realization
•        26:57 Transformational Shifts
•        28:54 Embracing Discomfort
•        39:35 Owning Your Power

 

💡 Key Takeaways:

• Your body keeps score—even if you ignore it. Ignoring stress, neglecting rest, and silencing your needs leads to serious health consequences. Autoimmune issues, chronic pain, hair loss, your body will keep sending signals until you listen.
• Success isn’t just about achievement, it’s about alignment. We chase external milestones hoping they’ll bring happiness, only to find ourselves exhausted and unfulfilled at the finish line. True success comes from aligning your actions with your values, not society’s checklist.
• You will grieve as you grow. As you set boundaries and choose yourself, some relationships will shift—or end. Not everyone will celebrate your evolution, and that’s okay. Growth requires letting go of what no longer serves you.
• The smallest shifts create the biggest transformations. Healing doesn’t happen overnight. It starts with small, intentional choices—breathwork, hydration, movement, saying no when you mean it. The key is consistency, not perfection.

You’ve already done the quo—now it’s time to go beyond.
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✨ Connect with Stacey Luces:
•        Free Global Community - Rising Beyond Power Collective: https://www.skool.com/risingbeyondglobalcommunity/about

📩 Connect with Kelly:
•        LinkedIn/Instagram: @drkellykessler
•        Website: optimalyouhealthandwellness.com