A New Way to Love, Live and Lead

Ep 15: The Trust Equation: How to Trust & Believe in Yourself Again


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In this powerful episode, we explore one of the most foundational elements of self-connection: self-trust.If you’ve ever broken promises to yourself, stayed silent when you wanted to speak up, or doubted your ability to follow through — this episode is for you.

You’ll learn why so many men and women in midlife struggle with self-belief… and how to rebuild trust from the inside out using The Trust Equation — a framework that combines truth, repetition and compassion.


 Topics  Covered:

  • ​Why self-trust breaks down (and how it impacts confidence)
  • ​The psychology of self-abandonment
  • ​How to stop o\utsourcing your worth and start trusting your intuition
  • ​The “Integrity Loop” — how keeping small promises transforms your identity
  • ​Why consistency matters more than motivation
  • ​How to repair trust after self-betrayal
  • ​A soothing Self-Connection Ritual for rebuilding your internal safety


Key Takeaways:


  • ​Trust isn’t built in grand gestures — it’s built in daily alignment
  • ​Self-trust is self-respect in action
  • ​You don’t need perfection to trust yourself — you need presence
  • ​Learning to believe in yourself again is the foundation for confidence, boundaries, and authenticity


Self-Connection Practice of the Week:

A heart-based mantra practice to reconnect with inner safety. Repeat these words to yourself:

“I trust myself to honour my needs.I trust myself to tell the truth.I trust myself to begin again.”


Self Reflection Question:

Where have I broken trust with myself? What small promise can I start keeping today?


Resources & Links Mentioned in This Episode:

Download your free Intentional Living Worksheet⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Discover your Hidden Fear Persona. This is your hidden stress response you default into. Knowing this helps you quickly break old patterns and return to awareness.

Take the quiz → ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠


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👉 And remember: Midlife isn’t a crisis. It’s your awakening. Self-connection is the key step to coming home to yourself.


Thank you for being a part of my community!

With gratitude and love,


Cheryne X



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A New Way to Love, Live and LeadBy Cheryne Blom