When is the right time and what message does that send? 

 

That depends... 

 

Do you want to have a relationship or are you just looking for a sexual partner? After you have sex, your relationship changes. 

 

Do you have any rules in place -13 dates, 90 days? Do you hold to them?

 

Claudia and James are in rare form today. 

 

Sit back and enjoy this episode.

 

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