When is the right time and what message does that send? That depends... Do you want to have a relationship or are you just looking for a sexual partner? After you have sex, your relationship changes. Do you have any rules in place -13 dates, 90 days? Do you hold to them? Claudia and James are in rare form today. Sit back and enjoy this episode. If you have a question that you would like to ask James, you can either: Ask a question at Askaltucher.com. E-mail it to [email protected]. Or, text James at 203-512-2161.