The Archive Speaks

Ep 17 | Marie’s Story Part 1 – DRC: Raised Between Moves


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What does it mean to grow up in a place where conflict never fully leaves?

In Part 1 of Marie’s oral history, we meet her as a daughter of eastern Congo—born in Masisi, raised between Bukavu and Goma, and shaped early by movement, family expectations, and instability. Long before she became a displaced single mother, Marie was already learning how quickly life could change.

She speaks about childhood marked by love and discipline, pride in Congolese identity, and the quiet weight placed on girls inside extended families. Her memories move between schoolyards and family homes, volcanic eruptions and armed conflict, moments of belonging and moments of rejection. Each transition left an imprint.

This episode traces the foundations of Marie’s life—before motherhood, before displacement, before survival became her daily responsibility. It reminds us that displacement is not a single rupture, but a series of early interruptions that shape who women are forced to become.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

00:56 Introduction & Marie’s early life in Masisi, North Kivu07:48 Family, gender expectations, and childhood inside extended households10:37 Growing up between Bukavu and Goma, war and volcano13:26 Education, creativity, and the first losses of stability17:10 Becoming a young woman22:03 Displacement in Marie’s Life

Why This Story Matters

Women in eastern Congo are often displaced long before they are formally called “displaced.” Through conflict, disaster, and family breakdown, many girls grow up learning to adapt early—without protection or choice.

Marie’s story shows how instability shapes womanhood long before adulthood arrives. Listening to her childhood memories helps us understand what displacement takes—not only homes, but futures that were still forming.

About The Archive SpeaksThe Archive Speaks centers the voices of displaced women and female heads of households—stories often missing from policy, media, and historical record. These oral histories reflect lived memory, shaped by time, trauma, and survival. We hold space for these voices without political alignment or editorial interference.



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The Archive SpeaksBy The Refugee Archive Team