Lily & Fal discuss the standards & expectations in relationships of their younger selves vs. now. They then define standards and expectations and discuss their differences. Resources: https://medium.com/the-chill-philosopher/at-the-intersection-of-expectations-standards-part-1-differences-adc9d914d16f https://herway.net/17-bare-minimum-relationship-standards-you-have-to-set/