Before becoming a solo mom by choice, a social worker encouraged Sara to think about the “family story” she would someday tell her child — how their family came to be and what it all means.

Four years later, she still hasn’t written the perfect storybook, script, or polished explanation she imagined she’d need. But somewhere along the way, her son quietly showed her something important: maybe children understand family better than adults do.

In this episode, Sara talks about the pressure to get it all “right,” why she thinks her son has never asked where his dad is, the beautiful way children define family by who shows up, and why the real task may not be explaining their family to him — but preparing him for a world that still thinks some families need explaining.

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🎙 Hosted, Produced & Edited by: Sara Amin
🎨 Cover Art by: Esha Janssens-Sannon