How do you communicate? Do you blame your partner for anything that happens, do you keep score? Do you constantly bring up the past during disagreements, or arguments. Do you have co-dependency issues, or does your partner threaten to leave you when you have disagreements? Feeling alone or feeling like your not being heard or listened to. All these are issues in communication when you have to learn to listen, or change the way you communicate. If you find yourself or your partner doing any of these things then you will need to change the way you communicate or listen.