TOO RICH TO RELATE

Ep 19. Is The Online Industry Doing More Harm Than Good?


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In this episode, I’m bringing a little bit of spice, a little bit of provocation, and a little bit of controversy. We’re talking about whether the online space is setting an unrealistic standard for people. Are we only getting advice from the 0.1% who survived what breaks everyone else? Because those are the people who didn’t break, who built capacity where others collapsed, who stretched themselves beyond what was comfortable, convenient, or relatable.

Most people will break under those circumstances; that’s biology, that’s natural selection. The truth is, not everybody is meant to be in the 1%, and that’s not wrong; it’s neutral. The real work is self-actualization, building capacity over time, and extracting the principles that are in resonance with you. If you’re burning out, it’s not truth, it’s not alignment, it’s not your work. Exceptional doesn’t come in the outcome; it comes in the process of mastery.


 Inside this episode:

  • Why most people will break under certain circumstances, biology, natural selection, and business
  • Titans and Olympians of their niche: why you can’t copy their pace without capacity
  • Burnout happens when there’s no embodiment, no connection to yourself
  • Natural selection at work in entrepreneurship and why most businesses don’t pop off
  • Want something extraordinary? Why will it feel unrealistic for the way you’re coded right now
  • Victims, saviors, and villains: the drama triangle of codependency in business
  • Enough is not a feeling, it’s an identity, why self-concept drives everything
  • Exceptional doesn’t come in the outcome; it comes in the process of mastery



 Quotes:


“If you’re burning out, you’re not on the frequency of truth. You’re copying someone else’s assignment.”

“Exceptional isn’t in the outcome. It’s in the process of mastery.”

“Enough is not a feeling. It’s an identity.”

“Most people are not supposed to have this lifestyle; that’s natural selection.”

“Your job is to literally be skilled in your craft and to serve people through your excellence. Not save them, not drag them, but to be so excellent in your craft that it makes a positive impact.”



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TOO RICH TO RELATEBy Victoria St. Fleur