That Sexciting

Ep 2. Anchor, island & waves: Attachment Theory ft. Lucille Shackleton


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Do you know what your attachment style is?


In this week’s episode, Yancy discusses Attachment Theory with behavioural scientist and counsellor, Lucille Shackelton. The dive into its 4 distinct styles, and the sometimes uncomfortable questions it can invoke!


Attachment theory is founded on the idea that our caregiver-child relationship dynamics shape how we hold close intimate connections as adults. In essence: “your attachment style is a blueprint of your basic assumptions about safety and trust*.”


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Her Upcoming Podcast: Relationship Realities 


Content mentioned

Turn on trigger quiz by Shan Boodram 

https://www.thegameofdesire.com/quiz


Sexual Greenflags explanation from Intimacy with Maya

https://www.instagram.com/p/CXjzsEYvXc6/


Loops and instrumentals by J.u.D.

https://www.instagram.com/judexperience/


Books mentioned: 

Wired for Love by Stan Tatkin

Wired for Dating by Stan Tatkin

Your brain on love by Stan Tatkin

Attached by Amir Levine & Rachel Heller

* The Attachment Theory Workbook by Annie Chem


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