A Dad's Journey: From Unprepared to Present

In this heartfelt episode, we dive into the journey of fatherhood with guest Brett. The conversation begins with the joy of a new grandchild and the unique experience of watching your own child become a parent. Brett shares a vulnerable story about the initial surreal feelings of holding his first newborn and the realization that a father’s love often grows with time and intentionality, rather than being an immediate, overwhelming feeling.

We discuss the difference between a physical presence and a true emotional presence in parenting, and how a father’s role is to not just protect, but to guide his children through life's challenges. The episode emphasizes the importance of making time for small, consistent interactions—from shared hobbies and car rides to simply sitting down for dinner—as these "along the way" conversations are often the most meaningful. We explore the tough but necessary choice to let kids make their own mistakes, learn to communicate their thoughts, and develop resilience. Finally, we touch on the generational gap in parenting styles and the vital role of a father in teaching integrity and moral reasoning. This is a must-listen for any dad navigating the complexities of raising children in today's world.