We're back in the studio for round two and this time Andy's wearing headphones. On the table is a biggie: what really bugs us about getting older?

Many of us have life goals, to-do lists, and milestones we've missed. It might be that you didn't join a rock-band, haven't travelled or haven't met that special someone. They're overt, and sometimes subconscious, expectations we have when reviewing life's journey.

So what's our response. Shame, or guilt? Can we escape feelings of comparison and regret? And what do Kazak dentists and desert stranded sea-lions have in common?

We've got a few suggestions: focus on grieving well, and not doing this life thing on your own.