Feeling disconnected in your marriage? In this podcast, I reveal the five hidden behaviors that might be sabotaging your relationship—and they're not what your husband is doing wrong. Learn how emotional reactivity, mind-reading, scorekeeping, avoiding vulnerability, and living in "wait mode" create invisible walls between you and your partner. I share my personal journey from resentment to connection, along with practical strategies to regulate your emotions, communicate directly, and create the relationship you want without waiting for your husband to change first. Learn how small shifts in your approach can transform your marriage starting today, even before your partner makes a single change. This isn't about lowering your standards—it's about reclaiming your power and becoming your own source of happiness.