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EP 22: How To Set Godly Boundaries When “Normal” Feels Unknown
When “normal” keeps shifting under your feet, you don’t need guesswork—you need a compass you can trust. We tackle a listener’s question about boundaries and point straight to Scripture for clarity, then translate those principles into real-life guardrails for military marriages and daily discipleship. Think warning tracks, not brick walls: practical cues that help you protect what is good before you collide with what can break you.
We dive into the high-risk zones we see most often around the force—adultery, alcohol, and pornography—and show how small compromises become big failures. Proverbs 5 offers both a sober warning and a hopeful plan: flee what destroys and actively delight in your spouse. We also discuss why the same boundary won’t fit every season. Deployments, duty stations, and friend groups change the playing field, so wise couples review and reset expectations for opposite-sex interactions, alcohol use, digital transparency, and communication rhythms.
Throughout the conversation, we keep it practical: adopt public, transparent meeting spaces; avoid one-on-one privacy with the opposite sex; set alcohol rules or abstain during vulnerable seasons; use accountability tools on devices; and schedule regular heart-level check-ins. Just as important, we emphasize pursuit over mere prohibition—fill the vacuum by investing in your spouse with prayer, honesty, and shared routines that nourish intimacy. Pride says “I’d never,” but humility builds guardrails that let you run free without drifting. If this resonates, share it with your unit or spouse, subscribe for more biblically grounded tools, and leave a review telling us the boundary you plan to set this week.
SHOW NOTES:
Share with us the boundaries you and your spouse plan to put into action at [email protected]
Check out Brian's blog on this topic at https://brianoday.com/2025/02/07/lets-talk-about-sex-prevent-adultery/
Grab the book; Strengthen Your Marriage, by Wayne Mack (Brian's recommendation) here Amazon.com: Strengthening Your Marriage (Audible Audio Edition): Wayne A. Mack, Jim Denison, christianaudio.com: Books
Support the show
http://instagram.com/militarywellnesscollective
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By Military Wellness CollectiveWhen “normal” keeps shifting under your feet, you don’t need guesswork—you need a compass you can trust. We tackle a listener’s question about boundaries and point straight to Scripture for clarity, then translate those principles into real-life guardrails for military marriages and daily discipleship. Think warning tracks, not brick walls: practical cues that help you protect what is good before you collide with what can break you.
We dive into the high-risk zones we see most often around the force—adultery, alcohol, and pornography—and show how small compromises become big failures. Proverbs 5 offers both a sober warning and a hopeful plan: flee what destroys and actively delight in your spouse. We also discuss why the same boundary won’t fit every season. Deployments, duty stations, and friend groups change the playing field, so wise couples review and reset expectations for opposite-sex interactions, alcohol use, digital transparency, and communication rhythms.
Throughout the conversation, we keep it practical: adopt public, transparent meeting spaces; avoid one-on-one privacy with the opposite sex; set alcohol rules or abstain during vulnerable seasons; use accountability tools on devices; and schedule regular heart-level check-ins. Just as important, we emphasize pursuit over mere prohibition—fill the vacuum by investing in your spouse with prayer, honesty, and shared routines that nourish intimacy. Pride says “I’d never,” but humility builds guardrails that let you run free without drifting. If this resonates, share it with your unit or spouse, subscribe for more biblically grounded tools, and leave a review telling us the boundary you plan to set this week.
SHOW NOTES:
Share with us the boundaries you and your spouse plan to put into action at [email protected]
Check out Brian's blog on this topic at https://brianoday.com/2025/02/07/lets-talk-about-sex-prevent-adultery/
Grab the book; Strengthen Your Marriage, by Wayne Mack (Brian's recommendation) here Amazon.com: Strengthening Your Marriage (Audible Audio Edition): Wayne A. Mack, Jim Denison, christianaudio.com: Books
Support the show
http://instagram.com/militarywellnesscollective