Becoming a better you Podcast

EP 22: Main Character Energy: BUILDING a Relationship with You


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Hey loves 🤍

In this video, I’m opening up about something really personal—my journey of learning how to build a relationship with myself. For a long time, I didn’t realize how disconnected I was from who I truly am. I was constantly pouring into others, but not into me.

I’ve had to learn self-acceptance… embracing every part of myself, even the ones I used to shy away from. I’ve also been working on becoming more self-aware—doing honest self-check-ins and really asking myself what I need, what I feel, and what I deserve.

One of the biggest things that changed my life? Spending time alone. Taking myself out on solo dates, enjoying my own company, and not waiting on anyone else to make me feel whole. It wasn’t easy at first, but now it’s something I truly love.

And even the small things, like personal grooming, have become intentional acts of self-care—ways I show up for myself and remind myself that I matter.

If you’re on a journey of finding yourself, loving yourself, and becoming more confident on your own… this video is for you 🤍

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takeaways

  • Building a relationship with yourself is essential for happiness and confidence.
  • Auditing yourself helps identify what truly makes you happy when alone.
  • Practicing solo dates can be empowering and enjoyable.
  • Taking care of your appearance boosts your self-esteem.
  • Self-love and self-acceptance are foundational for healthy relationships.
    Chapters

    00:00Introduction to Building a Relationship with Yourself

    00:30The Importance of Self-Acceptance

    01:23Changing Self-Perception and Embracing Who You Are

    02:19Personal Experience as a Stay-at-Home Mom

    03:17Feeling Bored and Seeking Connection

    04:11Attachment to Friends and Self-Reflection

    06:35Realizing the Need for Happiness When Alone

    07:58Auditing Yourself to Understand Your True Self

    09:17Discovering What Makes You Happy Alone

    12:35Going on Solo Dates and Enjoying Your Own Company

    15:23The Power of Personal Grooming and Dressing Well

    16:50Taking Care of Your Body and Mental Health

    18:10Building Confidence and Independence

    19:16The Benefits of a Strong Self-Relationship

    20:34Encouragement to Start Building Your Self-Relationship

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