When we live out of “should land” we push the very thing we are chasing further and further away.
"I should be..."
"I should be..."
"I should be..."
The thing is, when we live in should land, we are pushing ourselves further into expectations created by others.
Things we see online. People we look up to. Other lifters we watch. Friends achieving what we want to.
By living in should land, we let these expectations drive our behaviour and take over.