Junk Drawer Mamas: Sorting the Drama and Trauma of Extreme Parenting to Find Hope, Healing and Humor

Ep 24: Parenting Regret, Grown-Up Kids & Grace For Mistakes (Ours & Theirs)


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Ever walk away from a conversation with your adult child thinking, “Well
 I blew that.”? Yeah, us too. đŸ™‹â€â™€ïž

In this deeply personal episode, Deena & Christina get vulnerable about some recent parenting moments that didn’t go as planned and how God used them not to shame, but to gently show how He parents us.

From mom guilt to emotional landmines and the tug-of-war between truth and tenderness, we’re digging into the junk drawer of what it looks like to parent adult children through God’s grace
 even when we’re still healing ourselves.

We’re not here to hand out parenting advice. We’re here to hold space, remind you that you’re not alone, and maybe even help you take a deep breath today. 💗


Â đŸ—ïž Key Takeaways from Episode 24:

đŸ©· Real talk on what it feels like to mess up with your grown kids

💜 Not every phone call with your adult child needs to turn into a sermon or a lecture about what they "need "to do.

💛 Sometimes the most powerful thing you can say is: “How can I support you right now?”

đŸ©·Your own healing journey can unintentionally create unrealistic expectations for your kids.

💜 Mom guilt is real, but so is God's gentle correction and grace.

💛 The emotional cost of parenting from exhaustion and how to shift it.💜 Being their safe space is more important than being right.

💛 God is still parenting us and using our mistakes to mold us into more compassionate moms.

 

 𝗠𝗼đ—ș𝗼, đ˜†đ—Œđ˜‚â€™đ—żđ—Č đ—»đ—Œđ˜ đ—șđ—Čđ—źđ—»đ˜ đ˜đ—Œ đ—±đ—Œ đ˜đ—”đ—¶đ˜€ 𝗼đ—čđ—Œđ—»đ—Č. đ—šđ—Œđ—±â€™đ˜€ đ—Žđ—Œđ˜ đ˜†đ—Œđ˜‚, đ—źđ—»đ—± đ˜€đ—Œ đ—±đ—Œ 𝘄đ—Č. 💕𝗟đ—Č𝘁’𝘀 𝘁𝗼𝗰𝗾đ—čđ—Č đ˜đ—”đ—¶đ˜€ đ—·đ˜‚đ—»đ—ž đ—±đ—żđ—źđ˜„đ—Č𝗿 đ˜đ—Œđ—Žđ—Čđ˜đ—”đ—Č𝗿, đ—Žđ—¶đ—żđ—č. đ—Źđ—Œđ˜‚â€™đ—żđ—Č đ—»đ—Œđ˜ 𝗼đ—čđ—Œđ—»đ—Č.

 

🎧𝗧𝗹𝗡𝗘 𝗜𝗡 𝗡𝗱đ—Ș 𝗼𝘀 𝘄đ—Č đ˜€đ—”đ—źđ—żđ—Č đ—”đ—Œđ˜„ đ—čđ—Čđ—źđ—»đ—¶đ—»đ—Ž đ—¶đ—»đ˜đ—Œ đ—šđ—Œđ—±'𝘀 𝘀𝘁𝗿đ—Čđ—»đ—Žđ˜đ—” đ—°đ—źđ—» đ˜đ˜‚đ—żđ—» đ—Č𝘃đ—Čđ—» đ˜đ—”đ—Č đ—șđ—Čđ˜€đ˜€đ—¶đ—Č𝘀𝘁, đ—șđ—Œđ˜€đ˜ 𝘀𝘁𝗿đ—Č𝘀𝘀𝗳𝘂đ—č đ—±đ—źđ˜†đ˜€ đ—¶đ—»đ˜đ—Œ đ—șđ—Œđ—șđ—Čđ—»đ˜đ˜€ đ—Œđ—ł đ—œđ—Č𝗼𝗰đ—Č đ—źđ—»đ—± đ—œđ˜‚đ—żđ—œđ—Œđ˜€đ—Č.

 

 👉  𝗙𝗱𝗟𝗟𝗱đ—Ș  đ—łđ—Œđ—ż đ—șđ—Œđ—żđ—Č đ—Čđ—»đ—°đ—Œđ˜‚đ—żđ—źđ—Žđ—Čđ—șđ—Čđ—»đ˜ đ—źđ—»đ—± 𝘁𝗼𝗮 𝗼 đ—ș𝗼đ—ș𝗼 đ˜„đ—”đ—Œ đ—»đ—Čđ—Čđ—±đ˜€ đ˜đ—”đ—¶đ˜€ đ˜đ—Œđ—±đ—źđ˜†! đŸ‘ŻđŸ’œđŸ©·

 

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Junk Drawer Mamas: Sorting the Drama and Trauma of Extreme Parenting to Find Hope, Healing and HumorBy Deena and Christina | Mom Coach, Special Needs, Christian Life, Author, Speaker